5 Ways You Can Improve Your Next Reading
Believe it or not, you have just as much to do with the quality of your reading, if not more, than the Psychic Medium channeling your loved ones. I hear about so many people who sit with a Medium and aren’t satisfied with their experience because they have unrealistic expectations and/or a poor attitude. Below are a few ways to ensure that you will have a quality experience when receiving messages from spirit.
- Expect the Unexpected
You never know who or what you’re going to get when you sit with a Medium, exciting huh?! Well, not for everyone I can tell you that. I always remind my clients that I don’t control who comes through or what they say. I can only connect with the other side and ask that you get exactly who and what you need at that time for your highest good. Unfortunately, that isn’t always who or what you’re expecting. So how do you remedy this? Expect healing, expect love and expect honesty. You should expect to leave feeling more peaceful than you were before. And even if Grandma doesn’t bring up the fact that you wear her pearls to every wedding doesn’t mean that all the other specific information, and there will always be specific information, is invalid.
- The Right Attitude
Whether you’re a hardcore skeptic, a fierce believer, or land somewhere in the middle, you should ALWAYS meet a Psychic Medium with a positive and open attitude. You have to give us the chance to show you what spirit communication is all about. Some people want to sit there and not utter a word. Now, don’t be mistaken, under no circumstances should you feed a Medium any information, but it is only polite to validate the information with a yes, no, or a maybe. Don’t decide before you have your reading that it’s just a bunch of bull; let the work speak for itself. Like everything else in life, it’s all about your attitude.
- Call Ahead
It’s no secret that spirit sees and hears everything, at least not to me it isn’t. With that being said, why should Mediums have all the fun? Speak to your loved ones on the other side. Let them know how much it would mean to hear from them. They can hear you even though you don’t hear them. You can do it out loud or in your mind, it doesn’t matter to spirit. This doesn’t guarantee anything, but it sure does help!
- Don’t Get Discouraged
Psychic Mediums will bring a mix of information through during a reading. Some of it will be general, some will be amazingly specific, and still there will be information that makes no sense. Do not be disappointed and shut down because you don’t know what the Medium is talking about at that moment. Granted, this isn’t an exact science and we’re only human after all, we can be wrong every now and again. Most times, it’s just spirit’s unique way of validating their presence with a piece of information that you personally couldn’t recognize.
- Take Notes
A normal session can bring a lot of information forward. It’s best to take notes or even record a session. You can revisit it as much as you need in order to make sense of what was said. This is also essential for validating any predictions about the future your loved ones make.
A reading with a Psychic Medium is all about healing, closure, and guidance. It isn’t a party trick or a way out of making your own decisions. Mediumship is an enjoyable experience and should be handled appropriately for its capacity to heal and bring peace in a way that transcends the physical world.